It’s a new year and there are some new Share Four Somethings topics. I’m excited about the change up and look forward to sharing some new things with you this year. If you’d like to join this monthly blog link up, find out the details over at HeatherGerwing.com.
Something Loved
This topic is the same, probably because it’s a fan favorite. Well, it’s one of my favorites at least. Last year I focused on my “something loved” being a tangible item readers could find themselves because there was also “something treasured” which focused on experiences. Treasured is gone, so this section is now open to whatever suits me best each month.
My something loved are a couple of Christmas gifts. If you follow me on Instagram, then you are well aware of my affinity for books, cats, and fun socks. My mom sent me a very appropriate t-shirt and my mother-in-law gifted me the cutest socks. I love them both and will wear them often.
Did you get any cool gifts for Christmas?
Something Gleaned
This replaces “something read (or said)” from last year. It will most likely be something that made me think, or that I found encouraging or inspiring.
“The biggest obstacle to great writing is the same for great living. It is to substitute a safer, lesser goal for the tough and exciting work you really ought to be doing.”
I found this quote in the devotional Good Enough: 40ish Devotionals for a Life of Imperfection by Kate Bowler and Jessica Richie (available Feb. 15). Each devotion, which is honest and relevant to the rhythms and challenges of life, ends with a blessing and a potential action step. The authors are very relatable and the acknowledgement that sometimes life is hard feels like a breath of fresh air.
I love following Morgan Harper Nichols on Instagram. She posts such encouraging and inspiring messages, usually written over her own watercolor creations. The quote above felt poignant to me because, as a perfectionist, my brain thinks in extremes – either I do everything right or I’m worthless. I need truths like the one above to give me proper perspective.
Is there a particular message that you need to remind yourself of frequently?
Something Braved
This topic is an opportunity for vulnerability. We’re supposed to share something that was challenging or resulted in failure. I both love and hate this topic. Hate because it forces me to reckon with my perfectionism and love because I want to face more things that are difficult but worthwhile. In fact, my 2022 word is Dare to encourage me to be bold and put myself and my work out there more.
With all of that in mind, Berkley Publishing had an open submission window that ended earlier this month. It was an invitation for unagented writers to submit a completed manuscript directly to them. I submitted a query for my first contemporary romance book. I have little hope that anything will come from it, but I have better odds than if I hadn’t submitted, right?
I’ve put out into the world that I have a goal of publishing my book this year. This means learning the world of self-publishing in case I don’t find an agent. Unfortunately, I hit a minor bump. I came up with a title that I loved and would allow the series I have planned (of at least three books) to have related titles. Recently, I learned that there’s a book coming out next month with the EXACT. SAME. TITLE. It momentarily devastated me. After moping for a day or two, I set my mind to coming up with a new title. Technically, I could keep it because book titles can’t be copyrighted, but mine would probably get lost in the book world being the second one out (and for all I know the other one will be a hit). So, I’m brainstorming and choosing to trust that everything will work out in the end. The good news is I haven’t yet paid for an official cover.
Have you had any recent setbacks or done something that made your heart beat faster out of fear?
Something Achieved
This topic is sharing where progress is being made, possibly toward a larger goal, but any type of growth is an achievement.
I’ve heard a lot of good things about the program Scrivener. I’m taking advantage of their 30-day free trial to determine whether it’s a program that will benefit me as a writer. It’s initially quite overwhelming because it has so many features. I went through the tutorial but it still felt like a lot. I talked to my Mastermind group about it, and turns out, they all use it. One member sent a link to a video to show you the basics in about twenty minutes, which helped me greatly. I finally took the plunge and jumped into using the program. And I love it. It’s amazingly helpful to work on two to four scenes simultaneously without switching between screens. I can insert research and links into the notes section of each scene or chapter with ease. I don’t yet have experience with how it works with a finished manuscript that’s ready to be uploaded into a book format because I’m still editing, but I’m confident it’ll be fairly user friendly.
I’m also trialing ProWritingAid. It’s editing software that offers suggestions for grammar, spelling, and sentence structure to strengthen your writing. It does more than that, but it’s challenging to explain. I’m overwhelmed at times, but I’ve found it extremely helpful as well.
It may seem silly to you that using a couple of programs would be an achievement, but it’s one more step on my way to becoming a published author. It’s an investment in myself, one more thing to prove my seriousness in being a writer.
What’s something that you are proud of from this past month?
Those are the new topics for 2022. Which one is your favorite?
Beth says
So happy you’re loving Scrivner!
meganbyrd says
I’m sure there’s a lot more I could be doing and more to learn, especially when I am ready to export it, but it’s fantastic right now.
Linda Stoll says
I’m a Kate Bowler fan … she’s got her finger on the pulse of where so many women are… and her words always give cause for pause.
Fun to meet you @ Heather’s today, Megan!
meganbyrd says
Yes, I appreciate her candidness in her writing. And it’s cool that she works at Duke, which is only a few hours down the road.
Lisa Blair says
You could keep your title and add a colon with an additional word or words (Example: Hearing God Today: A 40-Day Devotional).
Technology is definitely something to be braved! I looked at Scrivener, but I wasn’t brave enough to actually try it. Can you share your friend’s 20-minute video? I feel inspired!
Dare sounds like an adventurous word of the year.
meganbyrd says
It’s fiction so I don’t really want a subtitle, but thanks for the suggestion. Here’s the link to the video I watched: https://youtu.be/AO2t33J22yY
Cindy Davis says
The devotional book sounds great! Good luck trying to get your book published! As an avid reader, I appreciate you trying to get something out there. I agree it is probably best to find a new title. One of my pet peeves is searching for a book when you can only think of the title and then getting a million results. My husband has tried to get a book or two published, so I know a bit about the process from this side of it and I enjoy the other side (getting to read it!). I do think you are brave for going for it and again, good luck!!
meganbyrd says
Thank you for the encouragement. It was a bummer for sure, but I have some potential options for new titles. I’ll get there as long as I keep taking steps.
Donna says
Great month, Megan! Congratulations for braving the submission of your manuscript! As writers, sharing our writing is very personal and requires a vulnerability we’re not always ready to step into. Fingers crossed it’s well received!
meganbyrd says
Donna, Thank you for the encouragement. It’s definitely scary, but my ultimate goal is for people to read it. 🙂
Heather Gerwing says
You Rock! I’m so excited to see where this year takes you and I can’t wait to buy your book!!!
meganbyrd says
Thanks, Heather! I’m interested to hear about your book in the coming months.
Jennifer Smith says
Perfect gifts – your people know you well:) All the best with your bookwork. Kudos to you!!
meganbyrd says
They do indeed. Thanks so much!
Lesley says
The book you shared about sounds good. And “dare” is a brave choice for your word of the year, but well done for putting yourself out there.
meganbyrd says
Yes, I’m a little nervous about “Dare” but so far so good. 🙂